Hi, Iām Crystal Summerhays.
My Personal journey into Motherhood and Doula Support
My goal has always been motherhood. After a year of unsuccessfully trying to conceive, I found myself feeling hopeless and fear began ruling in my life. I sought the guidance of a holistic doctor, and we conceived our son. In eager anticipation of motherhood, I immersed myself in knowledge, devouring information about the physiology of birth. As I learned, I gained a confidence I had never before experienced.
My preparation paid off, culminating in a beautiful, unmedicated birth in February 2021. Fear stopped holding so much power in my life. It was replaced by faith and gratitude for my body and spirit. Though becoming a mother is full of many challenges, I knew how strong I really was.
In June 2022, I conceived naturally. However, at 9 weeks I learned there was no heartbeat, and I experienced the heart-wrenching and intense pain of a miscarriage. Amidst the struggle, I found myself, once again, drawing on the knowledge and strength cultivated during my birth journey. This new hurdle illuminated the profound impact that birthing had on me and sparked a new desire.
Answering the Call to Doula Support
I attended my first birth as a doula for my sister in September 2022. Just two months later, I completed doula training with Melissa Chappell. I also attended a birth with the guidance of Monica Wilkinson. 2023 was a whirlwind as I attended several births and also had my second baby at home and then completed a Breastfeeding Support Certification. In 2024, I added certification as a VBAC Link Doula. It has been a privilege to support women on their sacred journeys.
I hold a deep belief in the sacred nature of birth. My faith in God informs every aspect of my doula practice, guiding me to approach birth with reverence and gratitude.
I would be honored to guide you on your journey.
PHilosophy and approach
Created For Birth
We are created to birth our babies into this world. That process is more than just an event- it is a transformation. I carry this philosophy at the core of my approach. I believe in the innate strength within every woman, and my role is to guide and empower you, alongside the rest of your birth team, on your unique journey.
Combat fear with faith
Fear causes tension, tension leads to pain. When we face our fear, we replace it with FAITH, which allows us to relax and allow.
We emerge stronger and more resilient. Birth, with all its uncertainties and challenges, provides a crucial opportunity for personal growth.
Collaborative Effort
I value the essential role that partners, grandmothers, sisters and others play. My doula support extends beyond the individual, creating a collaborative and inclusive environment that fosters a sense of unity and believe it or not, FUN.
Empowerment
You are in in the drivers seat, I am the navigator. I love supporting your birth plan and empowering you to advocate for your choices. I provide knowledgeable guidance and suggestions throughout.
When we give birth, we can realize just how powerful we are. This strength carries with us throughout our lives and motherhood.